I still remember when $20 in my pocket covered for three-week expenses, and that was when I was in college. Back then, life was simple and comfortable. I had no "real" income, so I had no need for big expenses - A peace of mind.
When I started working after college, I would buy anything. Clothing, accessories, food and stuff, whatever fits my fancy at the spur of the moment. I was, for lack of a better phrase, a little spending machine. I seemed to be always one pair of new shoes away from happiness. Over a few years, home is cluttered with piles of things, unused makeups, dresses that still have tags on.
Now, I am more picky on things I use and food that I eat. I tend to spend my money on things I really like and enjoy, even though they may be expensive, instead of spending money on some random things just for kicks.
Growing up is a strange thing, because once a while when you look back you could see a clear path from then to now, and there is a reason why you become who you are.
I think our whole culture is centered around trying to make you want crap you don't need. We're convinced that things will make us happier, healthier, better-looking, etc. But the things we really need to be happy and healthy are simple - how ironic. What sort of things do you think are worth the money nowadays?
ReplyDeleteYou're right about our culture. But I feel that as I'm more mature, I can control myself not be swayed by ads, commercials and social norms. I know what they are trying to do to me, and I have the wits to resist it to only get and use what I need. It took a few years, but it finally came through.
ReplyDeleteAs for what I think worthy of spending my money. I like to eat good food, so if I find something good, I would stick with it. I took time to search for good services: hair dressers, masseuse, etc. If I buy something, I would make sure it's what I like and that I would make use of. You can see my other posting: "Best Stuff On Earth" for some examples.