A difficult word

Last Friday morning I had a phone call with my colleague, Mr. D., to explain to him some work related steps.

After my long-winded explanation, I concluded by saying: "Well, this is a convoluted explanation, so I appreciate your understanding of what I'm trying to say." Mr. D. responded: "Wow, I'm impressed that you are using the word 'convoluted.' It's a difficult word even for Americans and English native speakers." I guess it surprised me a little that the word came out so naturally, as if I planned to say that all along. Then we spent a little more time to have a pleasant conversation about learning English as a second language; and his living in Germany, where he only learned enough German to order foods and drinks in the restaurants. I explained to him that when I came to America to study, learning English was for survival, so I had to study hard and it was difficult at times.

I still remember in numerous conversations in the past, people would ask, "How long have you been here?" I would say: "6 months," or "1 year," or "3 years", respectively; and they would be impressed and said, "Your English is very good. It must be difficult learning a new language and study all these subjects in this new language." They were so encouraging, and I still appreciate their support til today. These days, it is more difficult for me to impress people with my English, knowing that I've been living here for more than 20 years. So I appreciate Mr. D.'s compliments, and I told him so.

It reminded me that one time I was working in the lab with my colleague, I think that was early days of my career so I had been living in America for about 10 years, I told Mr. S. "Oh, my computer is out of juice," and Mr. S. was flabbergasted. He laughed and said: "What did you say? I didn't expect that to come out of your mouth." Then we joked that I was being more American everyday.