On forget and forgive

I used to think its a general saying to tell people not to hold grudges for something others did to them, forget about those bad experiences, and forgive the enemies.

Some personal experience let me to augment this to: if I cannot remember the incident in which lead me to be upset at the person, then it's time to forgive that person.

Of cause that can also mean, if you cannot forget then you don't want to/have to forgive.

I'm sure everyone has his or her own interpretation. That's the beauty of living and learning.